🕊️ LEARNING THE ART TO LET GO

Hi there,

There’s a quiet kind of strength in letting go — not in anger, not in defeat, but in softness.
It’s choosing peace over perfection.
Being soft and kind doesn’t make you weak.
It means you have the courage to stay gentle in this hard world.

At first, this wasn’t easy for me — especially as someone who once believed in doing everything perfectly.
But slowly, step by step, I’ve come to realize:
my soul is healing. 😊
This learning — this softening — is something inspired deeply by my mother.

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🌿 A Few Things I’m Learning to Let Go:

✧ 1. The Desire to Be a Perfectionist

Not everything goes according to plan.
Some things are shaped by time and fate.
If things don't go my way, it doesn’t mean I’m failing — it just means I’m learning.

✧ 2. Comparing Myself to Others

My life, my timing, and my path are uniquely mine.
Their journey isn’t mine.
And mine doesn’t need to look like theirs to be valid.

✧ 3. Carrying Regret and Guilt

Mistakes don’t define me.
They shape me.
Carrying guilt only slows down growth — and I deserve to move forward with grace.

✧ 4. Living Under Others’ Expectations

Doing things just to please others while ignoring my own heart will lead to disappointment 
Now I choose to follow what feels right to me.
And if I need to pause, I allow myself that rest — I’ve earned it.

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Rest is not failure.
Healing takes time.
And sometimes the kindest thing we can do is slow down.

So, if you're also learning to let go,
I hope you do it gently. 🌸

-Me ( My Soul Diary )